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Getting Married

Your Civil Wedding Ceremony

Our advice...
To ensure your special day runs smoothly, we have a few recommendations.

Couples with two witnesses (who must be able to speak and understand English) and guests are asked to arrive at the Register Office at least 10 minutes before the time of the marriage ceremony (this will differ for marriages at approved premises).

Upon arrival, the bride and groom will be met by the Registrar who will check with them the correctness of the details which need to be entered in the marriage register. The information required will include the full names and occupations of the natural or legally adopted fathers of both the bride and groom.

Entering the room
If the bride wishes to enter the marriage room accompanied by her father or other relative/friend, it may be possible to interview the couple separately.

In such a case, this should be requested before the wedding day and arrival/interview times will need to be adjusted accordingly. Otherwise the bride and groom enter the marriage room together to join their guests for the ceremony.

The Superintendent Registrar, having welcomed all present and explained what is about to take place, will ask the bride and groom, in turn, to make their marriage vows to each other.

The vows
There is now a choice of civil vows from which couples are asked to state their preference before the day of marriage.

It may also be possible for the couple to add their own personal vows or commitments to each other, and include music, poetry and prose readings. This must be discussed and agreed with the Superintendent Registrar before the day of the ceremony, and may not be of a religious nature.

A ring may be given at an appropriate point in the ceremony if desired.

Witnesses
Two credible witnesses, who should speak and understand English and be able to understand the nature of the ceremony, must be present throughout the ceremony. They will also be required to sign the marriage register.

We will do our best to help make your ceremony special and as personal to you as possible.

More help


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